Really?

One of those moments where I run into someone saying something that completely boggles my brain cells. As much as I try to see the other person's side of things, there are times when I could super glue a person's lips together, just because. To give a better understanding, I'll recap the event and the conversation:

The initial statement which was on facebook stated...

men and their dedication to football..how come they can't be that committed in a relationship??

now before i get into this "sensative" topic, I just want to say that i've heard this complaint before and in my world, i've made an adjustment and found results. I can't speak for every guy, but something that someone said, made it seem like us guys are the worst.

I made a few jokes about it being an unfair comparison and football and it not being around as long so we have to pay more attention to it....this female comes out of the woods with the the MOST outrageous comment in my opinion

I quote"hey ***** :)...i think Boys...not MEN want somethin or someone that

doesn't "talk back" to them, which is apparently football, but far from a

WOMAN...they yell at the TV throughout the entire game, and it doesn't

respond, that's y they're so dedicated! They are scared of a challenge....thats

why good ones are so hard to find! Lol"

Geeze even I can see that either her guy or past guys neglected her during their time wanting to watch sports. I will not ask the question do you all think that we want something to yell at, because im sure i'd get cursed out in about 4 different languages and 10 accents. Serious note though, does she not sound a bit bitter?....some might say oh she was just joking...yeah I hear ya!....I said I would be nice, so i won't dissect the whole conversation.

I seriously don't believe that we are afraid of commitment, long term, or as she stated "a challenge". Its a damn sport that we enjoy watching and playing. Asking about our commitment to one or the other to me can be comparing apples to oranges. I feel like I commit to something that keeps my attention and makes me happy. If I don't care for it,want to be involved with it or what its about, i absolutely will not commit....You know, so maybe I'm wrong about apples to oranges....its relevant. Take notes though...if you are not keeping a persons attention male or female, the chances of them committing to you fully will decrease over time

JUST THOUGHT I'D SHARE

The Escape Part 1

After being in Tuscaloosa since April and only getting a chance to go home once, I finally decide to take another trip back. Kinda like a mini vacation...I'd say 1 of 3 before the year is out. This time back home/ away from Tuscaloosa is much needed. I deal with those people day to day and the outsiders as well....They run me nuts, but im cool.

Been home for about 24hours and I'll be heading back tomorrow for work. Thats right, as much as they get on my nerves, im going back to them...

Got a few new things going on

Lauren....she's such a cutie, can't wait til she starts walking and talking. Its gonna be project bad habits...nah j/k

Work ....living in a new town is pretty interesting to say the least. I do find myself having more idle time than i care for, but I think it may be well needed. Love the job, deal with the people, spend the checks....week by week

Social Life: Single....yeah i'll just leave it at that

Friends: one of my homies is getting married in a little over a month. Im happy for him, but he doesn't know yet that im using him as a guinea pig for my potential future....im taking notes

Hobbies: 504 Talkin' Live WILL be back.....it was gone but clearly not forgotten with the unlimited amount of request for the return of it. I must say, we have had some good listeners/fans. Can't ask for much more than that. D and I will be getting back on with the coolest topics and music for your ears...DON'T SLEEP ON US

All in all during part 1 of my vacation. I over heard an interesting conversation of someone's date, got annoyed in the movie theater while i was trying to watch, had THE BEST burger in town, drinks with friends and a nap with my niece....Im content. Figured I'd get in here tonight and brush up on some old blogs...might tell a story or two to keep it interesting.

I RISE!!!!!!

For my long time readers, you know that this is typical of me to go hard on a few blogs and then fall off for a while. I tend to get busy and forget about my passion of telling the truth on these blogs. This time I swear, I am going to do all I can to keep it moving and to keep it often. You'd think I lose inspiration, but it never seems to leave my side. Its been over 5 months since my last one which is crucial. With work, living in a new city/town, the 504 Talkin' Live show and the new addition to the family I've slipped hard.....I will NOT abandon my place as a blogger anymore. I'm sure i have a few topics that need to be discussed, but I also have some editing to go back and do....I realize that I am a grammatical whore at times and sometimes I'm just a lazy ass....So be patient with me up front on the blogs, but it'll take me about a week to make these corrections and come back to the present....until the next blog folks......