Untouched Conversation....

I'm having a hard time understanding some things....Why women and men float around the idea of instant gratification. This applies to a lot of us....to be honest, it applies to most. We want her to give up the ass up front, cuz that makes her girlfriend material, right?.....We want him to be the man that we want him to be asap, fuck giving him time to grow, huh?

Why don't people date anymore?>>>>> To say that we do, would be a bold face lie.

I think people should start lowering their expectations of others....let them fill in the blanks in due time, but pick up on context clues that would obviously make them not the person for you. Why do you and I have to be so damn exclusive so fast....where I think people go wrong is when the boundaries are crossed (no need to mention which boundaries). This could prevent quite a few cycles and tears in the long run. This whole idea of instant gratification that we never talk about, makes me think that we are in a rush for something. Personally long term dating is the shit.....it builds character, lol. No one wants that though.....make me understand WTF is going on....this obviously doesn't apply to everyone but someone will take it personal and never read it again....this goes out to you ***kick rocks***

Tricks Are For Kids...I'm A Grown Ass Man, You Can't Fool Me!

After commenting about wanting to see some scalp, I've been thinking about why women where wigs and weaves.......

I have a few theories: 1: Having a condition that doesn't allow your hair to grow to a length where it once was 2: Not being comfortable with what you have 3: Thinking it looks awesome, when it really looks a hot mess.

I would really like to know, why?????????

I guess what makes me question this is my experience dating this one female who's hair obviously never stayed the same length. I remember one day giving her a hug, then realizing that there was something odd about her head. Something that just was not right about it. I wanted to touch it, but I didn't want to make it seem like I was judging (when in actuality I kinda was) her. It bothered me so much that after that night, I really started keeping tabs on her head and how it was put together. I remember that one day when I finally realized that having two different types of hair texture that were pretty much extremes of one another was nearly impossible. Looking closer I saw a substance that looked different, not like dried gel, or flakes, but GLUE!!!!!!................oooooh hell to the no, what in the hell is going on here. Why are your bangs silky smooth and your kitchen looking like someones nether region...Okay enough about this experience, I'm getting unwanted flashbacks?

So WHY, ladies?....I'm not bashing....I'm asking

I obviously can't speak for all men on this not, but I can go as far as saying that there's nothing wrong with rocking what you have(YOURS)....you can be as bald as Amber Rose (which is kinda sexy) or have hair down to your feet like Cousin Itt. I won't speak on it any further because I want to know more.....