Why don't people date anymore?>>>>> To say that we do, would be a bold face lie.
I think people should start lowering their expectations of others....let them fill in the blanks in due time, but pick up on context clues that would obviously make them not the person for you. Why do you and I have to be so damn exclusive so fast....where I think people go wrong is when the boundaries are crossed (no need to mention which boundaries). This could prevent quite a few cycles and tears in the long run. This whole idea of instant gratification that we never talk about, makes me think that we are in a rush for something. Personally long term dating is the shit.....it builds character, lol. No one wants that though.....make me understand WTF is going on....this obviously doesn't apply to everyone but someone will take it personal and never read it again....this goes out to you ***kick rocks***
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I'm just saying...we are too old for the whole, "let's date for two or three years and see where this goes" thing. Hell, my clock is ticking and I don't have time to wait and see if you are going to turn into the person I want or need you to be. I'm not into helping groom you into the person you ought to be. And similarly, I just don't feel like waiting until you become the person you say you can be! Primarily because that person is already out there, somewhere (hopefully)...and if you are the one I shouldn't have to wait for all that to happen nor should I have to waste 2-3 years to find out.
this is not about waiting for three years to see if things go well....its about how people DO NOT take time out with each other
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